MAY 20, 2026: PART TIME FRIEND
I had a friend when I was young. He was a good and talented guy, but unfortunately for him, he had a difficult upbringing. When I knew him, he did not have a father in the picture and like many in this situation, his mom struggled financially. We hung out and also stayed at each other’s houses a few times but after a while we drifted into different social groups. My new friends who didn’t know him, used his poverty and appearance as an excuse to look down upon him. I don’t know that I ever joined them in their ridicule, (I may have) but I know that I never intervened or defended my friend, nor was I as friendly toward him as I should have been when I was in the company of my, “new” friends.
I know that peer pressure is powerful, but even then I knew that I should have behaved differently. When I was with him, I was his friend, when I wasn’t, well… Not many years later, the young man suddenly died. I never came clean and apologized to him. I had my chance and never took care of it and now I will carry that regret for the rest of my days. It occurs to me that sometimes I might treat God this way. Do you?
Most of us say and do the right things when with people who might expect you to, or when someone is watching. How about when we are around people who don’t profess to believe in God and act accordingly? Do my standards change? How about when I am alone, when no one is watching? Saying we believe in God and acting as if we do are two different things. Perhaps there was a day when you said yes to Jesus and really meant it, but over time you have drifted away. Maybe it’s a matter of acting the part when it’s appropriate, (at church or around certain people) but doing your own thing when there is opportunity. Jesus says in Matthew 10:32 and 33. “So everyone who acknowledges me before men, I also will acknowledge before my Father who is in heaven, but whoever denies me before men, I also will deny before my Father who is in heaven.”
Even when I was disrespecting my friend, I knew it was wrong. Are you having the same feelings about disrespecting God? He is waiting for you to ask forgiveness and get right with Him. I wish that I had gotten right with my old friend. Don’t wait to get right with Jesus until it is too late! The regret could be eternal. Something to think about…
Joe was a single guy living at home with his father and working in the family business. When he found out he was going to inherit a fortune when his sick father died, he decided he needed a wife with whom to share his fortune. One evening at an investment seminar he spotted the most beautiful woman he had ever seen. Her beauty took his breath away. “I may look like just an ordinary man,” he said to her, “but in just a few years, my father will pass, and I’ll inherit his large fortune.” Impressed, the woman took his business card and three months later, she became Joe’s stepmother. Women are so much better at estate planning than men!